如切如磋,如琢如磨。
【原文】子貢曰:“貧而無諂,富而無驕,何如?”子曰:“可也。未若貧而樂,富而好禮者也?!弊迂曉唬骸啊对姟吩疲骸缜腥绱瑁缱寥缒ァ?,其斯之謂與?”子曰:“賜也,始可與言《詩》已矣,告諸往而知來者?!薄咀g文】子貢說:“貧窮卻不阿諛奉承,富貴卻不狂妄自大,怎么樣?”孔子說:“可以了。(但是)不如貧窮而樂于道,富貴而謙虛好禮的好?!弊迂曊f:“完善自身的修養(yǎng),既像雕刻骨器,又像雕刻象牙;既像雕琢玉器,又像雕刻石頭一樣下功夫,恐怕說得就是這個道理吧?”孔子說:“子貢啊,現(xiàn)在可以與你談詩了。提起學(xué)過的知識,你就知道將要學(xué)的知識,并有所發(fā)揮。”
Leadership is about inspiring people to do things they never thought they could.
The whole conviction of my life now rests upon the belief that loneliness, far from being a rare and curious phenomenon, peculiar to myself and to a few other solitary men, is the central and inevitable fact of human existence.
養(yǎng)兒子不教育和養(yǎng)驢沒有什么區(qū)別,養(yǎng)女兒不教育也和養(yǎng)豬沒什么區(qū)別;妻子如果賢惠,丈夫就少遭禍患,兒子如果孝順,父親就心情舒暢。