"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering."
禮義廉恥，可以用來要求自己，不可用來要求別人。要求自己則能少犯過失，要求別人則難以與人和睦相處，難以與他人相處就不合乎處世之道。所以君子只嚴(yán)格要求自己，小人則對別人求全責(zé)備。
The only purpose for which power can be rightfully exercised over any member of a civilized community， against his will， is to prevent harm to others.