她太怪了，我們無法想象自己與她扯上關系，她的語調令人發(fā)噱，來自一個奇怪的地方，我們與她毫無關聯(lián)。當你認為你與這個人毫無關聯(lián)時，你便不會嫉妒。越是兩個年齡、背景相近的人，越容易陷入嫉妒的苦海，所以千萬避免去參加同學會。因為沒有比同學，更強烈的參照點了。
She's simply too strange. We can't relate to her, she speaks in a funny way, she comes from an odd place. So we can't relate to her, and when you can't relate to somebody, you don't envy them. The closer two people are -- in age, in background, in the process of identification -- the more there's a danger of envy, which is incidentally why none of you should ever go to a school reunion, because there is no stronger reference point than people one was at school with.
【大意】君子不認為細微的好事不值得去做而舍棄它。
Architecture is the art of reconciliation between ourselves and the world.
我們越是研究疼痛，就越能理解它在生存中的作用。