I'm the reason your space won't expand.
To say 'I love you' one must first be able to say the 'I'.
The problem with people is that they forget to look at the big picture.
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.
晏子春秋