The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
The mind is not a thing, but a process.
It is no use doing what you like;you have got to like what you do.
一本書是作者和讀者穿越時間的親密對話。
【釋義】依靠暴力使人服從，不是真心服從，只是力量不足以進(jìn)行反抗；只有依靠道德使人服從，人家才會心悅誠服。