子張問:“什么是五種美德?”孔子說:“君子對人民施加恩惠,卻不耗費財用;使百姓勞苦,百姓卻無怨言;自己有所欲求卻不貪婪;安寧矜持卻不驕橫;威嚴卻不兇猛。”……子張又說:“什么是四種惡行?”孔子說:“事先不經(jīng)教育,犯了罪就殺頭叫做肆虐;不先告誡便要求有成效,這叫粗暴;發(fā)布命令遲緩,卻突然限期完成,這叫殘害人;同是給人賞賜,卻出手吝嗇,這叫只進不出的財務(wù)衙門。
The harder you work, the luckier you get.
When you forgive others, they may not notice, but you will heal. Forgiveness is not something we do for others; it is a gift to ourselves.
權(quán)力不是給予你的。你必須自己去奪取。
Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower.