The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It's getting them wrong that is living, getting them wrong and wrong and wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again.
保持心情愉悅,就是人生的一大智慧。看到的東西不那么養(yǎng)眼也覺得可飽眼福,聽的音樂不怎么好聽也覺得可以享受,只吃蔬菜就能滿足口腹之欲,穿的、住的很粗糙也能滿足身體的需要。人窮一時,但心不窮,真正的窮養(yǎng)富養(yǎng)或許不完全是物質(zhì)方面的,即使物質(zhì)生活條件差,只要保持積極樂觀的心態(tài),心情保持愉快,可以彌補物質(zhì)上的不足。正如孔子贊揚顏回“一簞食,一瓢飲,回也不改其樂”。
在糟糕的時候抱有希望不僅僅是愚蠢的浪漫。這是基于人類歷史不僅是殘酷的歷史,也是同情、犧牲、勇氣和善良的歷史。
"Poverty is not just a lack of money; it's a lack of hope."
信任是通過一致性、誠實和責(zé)任感建立的。